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Helping people in need is something I enjoy doing when the occasion arises and if it feels right to do. If you’re going to help people depending on how you intend to help a person you need to make sure you do it respectfully and without causing embarrassment.
During my Vision Quest we were split into groups and we had to complete an off site exercise at the local shopping center in which we had to ask shoppers for money and in return donate this money back to different shoppers.

This exercise taught us how it felt like to ask for money and how it felt like to give away this money that was donated to us. The experience I encountered was interesting to say the least and I was amazed with the results. More people were interested in donating there money than people willing to accept a donation. I started to think about this and why this is the case. Maybe it comes down to people thinking about there self worth or people thinking they are not worthy I am not sure.

Back to what prompted me in writing this Helping people in need content page. An hour ago I went to my local supermarket to do some grocery shopping. As I was shopping I walked past two young people who were having a load conversation which received my attention. The discussion was about the budget being tight and how they could not afford what one person wanted in food. I was saddened by what I heard because I think we all deserve what we want in life. As I walked by and continued to shop I thought about what I had just heard and experienced then I thought it was only a few dollars they needed extra and as i was at the cash register I made a cash withdrawal of $5 and the intention was to give it to this young couple. I did not follow through with it however because they looked stressed, there were people around and I did not want to put them in a position they did not need to be in.

I wish I could have helped the couple out however reflecting back I also think I did the right thing by not putting them in a position of embarrassment. We all have our own journey we need to fulfill so sometimes you need to let people continue on without adding else into their life.

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Strong views people have sometimes can be annoying to say the least. I have worked and socialized with a few people that are like this. It can get annoying when you’re trying to have a normal friendly conversation with people when someone jumps in to get there say. How many arguments and fights have been started this way in the past with different people?

This type of behavior is related to conditioning while growing up from early childhood to adult hood within the environment the person was growing up in. It can be related to constant fighting with a dominant parent or caretaker and this behavior transfers to adult life and helps shape this person to behave this way. I had fallen a little in this category in the past and it was related by my father at times when he showed force if I did something that he did not agree with but I spoke back to explain or defend and I suffered the consequences.

Unlike in the past today there are certain support groups that are there to help people and children who face these types of issues and the law is stricter in these cases. So it comes down to choice and I fully understand at times this is harder to do and get out of such situation. If you are in a situation like this and you want to get out of it start communicating with the universe or your God or Creator. They are here to serve us but they will only intervene if we ask for them to help. One way I found that works is by attraction. Start thinking how it feels like to be in the perfect environment. Visit a family or two that has in your eyes the perfect living environment. Feel and think this daily and don’t stop. Like magic things will happen. You may get a thought on how you can improve the situation or what you can do to move away from or you may pick up a newspaper and your solution may be there in front of and so on.

I healed from my experience by completing a rebirth during Vision Quest which involved a fair amount of energy healing work and past life healing during an Energy Movement group healing session while completing my right to passage. Again people accept who they have become and do nothing about this which is fine because everyone has the free will to do what they want to do whether they decide to heal themselves from any such experiences or remain the way they are.

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Conditioning People with Treats and Gifts - Have you ever noticed while at work or at a party someone paying particular attention to a person either by providing some treats such as a piece of cake or reserving a seat for them. Have you ever wondered why people behave this way? I am not talking about love attraction either. What people love is being able to connect with a person and share there problems with them and when they do they will spill out there issues to them because most of the time it’s the way they love there life to be.

Once this connection happens a friendship will be formed in which experiences are shared between each other because one wants to listen and be the sound board while the other loves what they do best and that is complain. It’s a bizarre way people behave at times and I have noticed so many times while working in an office job people behaving this way. Then the domino effect kicks in. People observe this behavior and they start to question why so and so has been treated special and why they have been left out.

What happens here with the people observing is that they use there perception and start to create there own theories and issues around what they observed and they may discuss this with others which then adds a little more to perception and within time you have lots of different thoughts floating about in one place among people that are not aware what the others have been thinking.

These people love complaining and whining and unfortunately they never do anything about improving there life and its sad. Imagine how many people are like this out there in the big wide world. People that are like this can change if they want to and it’s a matter of saying I want to change then the process begins. The next step is to choose a modality to help you. One way is to journal and attempt to observe and monitor your patterns, Hypnotherapy and Theta Healing will also help with improvements on a sub conscious level. Source - Conditioning People with Treats and Gifts Post.

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People, perception and judgment are the three things people use to come up with conclusions in life. I have found People use there Perception to create there world by the decisions they make. Perception is like your insight that comes to you when you think about a particular topic for example based on your past experiences around this. Again the data used for this perception based answer is based on what is stored in the sub conscious.

It’s a level of thinking that can be dangerous and cause many different issues. You may have an issue at work around a particular person for example. You may have experienced asking a person a question where you get an abrupt answer and if you ask another question on a different day you may perceive they will answer it the same way – abruptly. However you ask anyway and to your surprise they answer the question you asked differently and politely. You think what’s going on the person has not reacted the way you thought they would. Maybe this person was going through a bad hair day or had a small issue at work when you first asked who knows. The answer also could be that this person has realized they way they spoke to you and decided to correct this behavior the next time you spoke to them.

People, perception and judgment would be what creates an answer when you have 5 people in a room and ask each one separately a question related to a topic in which you may get 5 different answers. The reason behind this is that the 5 people have encountered different experiences based around this question hence the answers will be different. As human beings we don’t operate in way that is yes or no or black and white. We think for a moment as out brain scans the sub conscious where it looks for a similar experience and uses part of this data to come up with an answer and it all happens in milliseconds.

If someone has reacted badly with a question you have asked it may be an idea to reflect on what and how you asked the question and maybe use a different approach. Sometimes you can’t win them all and you just need to take on board any learnings you may of encountered.

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Understanding Different People can be hard sometimes whenever the need arises to communicate or socialize with.

I have often sat and wondered why people are different from each other and what makes us all unique? I often wondered if it is related to our genes. An example of this is a scenario of twins. Let’s presume there are a set of twins separated at birth. One of the twins has a new home with a rich family while the other twin has a new home with a family that always struggles to survive.

Do you think they will end up thinking the same way because they are related when the time comes where they need to make important decisions? Knowing from my experience that we call data stored in the sub conscious to help in the decisions process I do believe both will think differently to each other when it’s time to make some important decisions which is related to the conditioning they experienced growing up in two different families.

Sometimes if not most times it is difficult understanding different people. One maybe conditioned to think rich while the other may be conditioned to think struggle survive. It does not mean that they will go out and think this way. What this means is that when decisions are made in less than a second the data used is what is stored in the sub conscious which in effect will give two different outcomes due to the two different experiences growing up in different environments.

This is the key aspect of life and it happens in the form of conditioning the different experiences we experiences we help us to make decisions which in return start to shape our life from this. This is accepted as part of life but for those that accept that if we can change what’s stored in the sub conscious we then can improve our life there are solutions to this.

This is where a healing modality such as theta healing works wonders. You can find the answers to improving your life with Theta and with a few healing sessions changes will occur in your life depending on the experience of the Theta healer. During the session a healing could happen instantly where you will feel the change straight away or it can happen within a few days to a week.

If you encountered a situation when you were young that ‘created the fear of heights’ with Theta you can go back and heal yourself from this situation. The question comes down to whether you accept your life as it is today or if you want to improve it by healing yourself from the past. Source - Understanding Different People Post.
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People, Behavior and Conditioning - I think people are the most important part of life form on earth that can make or break society. People can make decisions that can impact us in many ways with roles these people perform such as the role of a President, UN committee members, thugs, murderers, managers and so on.

My question around people is - what makes these people do what they do and where do they draw conclusions from? Is it People, Behavior and Conditioning at it’s best? I have learnt from my experiences and training as a healer that its an experience or experiences gained by people (whether by seeing or hearing) during there life (including while in the mothers womb) that they store this data in the sub conscious which latter on in life they may recall to help shape them to be the person they are whether it’s for good or bad.

In society we all have a very important role to perform and that is to treat other’s the way you want to be treated. Anything that is done to a person by another whether it’s physical or mental abuse may hamper that person and may create an issue around that.

A child continuously being bullied at school may grow up to live in isolation because people may cause unhappiness.

A person who is mugged and beaten walking through a lane way in the future may stop from walking through a lane way.

Getting two different plumbers to do a job that wear blue overalls and black boots who fail and let down a person may in future make this person of plumbers who wear particular things such as the overalls and boots.

I believe many times we are driven by what is stored in the sub conscious without realizing this which also relates to ill health. It will not surprise me in the years to come and I am talking about 30-50 years from now science will be able to come up with a diagnosis tool of some sort related to test whether mental abuse received by a person actually has caused damage of some sort which hinders a person from doing certain things or moving forward.

Right now law protects people from visible actions and outcomes.

Would law in the future protect people from mental abuse related issues that can prove such actions has caused issues with new technology? You’re reading the People, Behavior and Conditioning post.

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